Advice line

12 May

PS – so i didn’t mention anything about seeing/not seeing the Frenchman now that i am back. He broke my heart and my brain knows the right thing but i just don’t know what to do.

Any ideas…?


8 Responses to “Advice line”

  1. liz May 13, 2010 at 12:08 am #

    oh btw, about it being freezing in paris, its absolutely freezing in philadelphia right now, whereas just last week it was soooooooooooooooooooooooo hot, like 90F/32C. crazyness. so dont feel too bad – the weather is wacky everywhere these days.

    hmmm….as for the boy….EEK!! this is SUCH a predicament. as u said, the right thing is to say no. but ultimately if ur extremely lonely and homesick, it might *momentarily* make u feel better to see him.
    although, u have to keep in mind that he is treating u like crap and no matter how nice u are to him, hes not gonna change that….
    id say the best way to get over him is to find another frenchie!!

  2. upward or wayward May 13, 2010 at 4:52 am #

    Here is my unwarranted advice 🙂
    find a much more deserving frenchman..
    However, no one could begrudge you for seeing him!
    First though, you could have some you time for a bit, enjoying the city and time by yourself and then see how you feel about it..
    I guess just be careful.. anything else i could say, i think you already know 🙂

  3. Melissa May 13, 2010 at 8:21 am #

    Go find another Frenchman…surely thats the tonic! Looking forward to the updates…xxx

  4. Poulette May 13, 2010 at 10:23 am #

    hmm, i included him on a group msg last night, giving out my new mobile number, and didn’t get a response (not that his lack of communication wasn’t already an issue) so i guess i got my answer then eh?

  5. liz May 14, 2010 at 1:05 am #

    hmmm about the whole group “this is my new number” text…not everyone always replies. most ppl (myself included) just make a note in their phone, and dont reply. so i bet u’ll prolly be hearing from him sometime, when its convenient *for him*. just a heads up! but yea whatever u do, DONT msg him again! if he wants u, he knows how to find u.

  6. Melissa May 14, 2010 at 5:59 am #

    For what its worth I agree with Liz- I never respond to those things, and if I dont a boy def wont…and then factor in the Frenchness…don’t focus to much on that!! xx

  7. Poulette May 14, 2010 at 8:29 am #

    Hmm, why do i feel like he should be jumping for joy that i’m back in town.

  8. liz May 14, 2010 at 11:41 pm #

    awww poulette, dont get too down about it. he’s just a jerk and not worth ur time anyway. i know how u feel tho – i’ve been there, done that too many times. guys like him seriously arent worth our time. its just hard tho, too easy to give in when they call/text, cuz i think the being alone in a foreign country factors in as well. we tend to have more free time and less obligations and feel slightly lonlier than we would back home, thus we are magnets for jerks who will use us when they see fit. le sigh 😦
    that being said i am pretty sure that eventually he will give u a call/text at some point. just be warned. remember, the right (and difficult) thing to do is to ignore.

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